Mixing Update: Dusty Stars Tracks not positive

So I took one of the tracks I’d mixed last night to one of the band members on my ipod to give him an idea. For some strange reaon the overall mix volume was really low, I had to have the ipod on %100 volume just to hear it, so thats something I’ll have to look at, and in general it sounded really flat, which is odd because it sounded great on the monitors and great on my stereo, I’m hoping he flatness is related to the volume problem that seemed to appear when I transfered it to the ipod.